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which makes more money than the other

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im been thinking about applying for data entry or medical records they both seem pretty good jobs to take but i’m not sure which to take i want a job that will teach me what i need to know
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bad marriage

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i’m definitely taking matters into my own hands in deciding to move out from my husband. it’s already proven that he’s been cheating on me i discovered a voicemail message on the house phone from a woman saying when is the next time i can come over to the house i love spending time with you,so i lost it as a result of that i’m filing for divorce before he decides to file he doesn’t know what he’s about to lose and that is me your wife for 10 years of marriage
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what makes you happy?

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some days i am really happy but others i crash. why are my mood swings so bad that i feel like cutting because i'm numb. what are something you guys do or your happiest memories?
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offensive

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it’s one thing to help somebody out but to tel them they need to work whatever issues they have is going too far. my stepmom went too far she told my sister that she’s too cute be having so much weight on her and she should lose 20 to 40 pounds, as soon as i heard every single word that came outta her mouth my blood boiling i mean boiling i was heated i’m like how could you say something like that, her excuse was i just trying to help you get confidence in yourself so i immediately step in to defend my sister first of all she knows for herself okay she doesn’t need anybody telling her how to lose weight, to make matters worse she gave my sister waist trainer this made me heated even more. after we finish our family therapy my sister and i got up and immediately left and i told throw that damn waist trainer in the trash
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family issues

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i just had my second child a girl i gave birth too, already there’s tension me and my cousin who i don’t have a relationship with because she’s wanting to fight me for no reason and yet she’s belligerently demanding i bring my daughter over she can see her, i’m like no you can’t at all because you don’t know how to act right i even asked her what i did i do to you nothing at all. she has two kids herself i want her two kids to see my daughter as well but with all this tension going on between me and her it’s definitely creating more and more issues i don’t know what to do at this point
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it is okay to feel lost?

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i feel so alone these days. i'm a senior at hs and i'm so stressed out i don't see the finish line. as a freshman i was depressed to the point i didn't think i would make it here. but now that i am here i don't really know what to do. i don't know how to balance school and personal life. what should i do?
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venting

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is it just me or has insight been more about people venting their frustration out with little details about themselves or what their real problems are?
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how do i find a date

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i don't even know why i'm posting this, but i'm in tears. this person on blah therapy and my neighbor said how i really was ugly and that nobody ever liked or wanted me and that it was the honest to god truth. i don’t know what to believe or think. i just wanted to find a way to be more attractive without being seductive, book smart without being a drop out and funny without being retarded and stupid and quite frankly finding a date to wishmaker's ball and prom, but people kept turning me down and making me feel stupid for even thinking i was gonna ask them. i don’t even know why i bother asking this question, but what should i do? i'm in tears. i want the whole prom experience of going with a date and wine and dining them, so i don’t want to go by myself. past years i’ve asked my sisters, but they didn’t seem interested and its just weird dancing with your sister. i know nobody’s probably gonna answer, but whatever….i guess i’m a loser in tears :(
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its tough to comes to terms with

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since my dad passed back in june it’s been tough and difficult to face, still asking why did he had to leave so unexpectedly, i feel as though what could’ve me and my family could’ve done to prevent this. my dad had a lot of medical issues one in particular that worried me was his diabetes he always ate what he wanted and sometimes as a diabetic you really have to watch what you eat and most of monitoring your blood sugar, at times i would have to get on him about eating sweets. and along with other issues everything i see him walking slow it worried me but he would say i’m okay honey, if i could turn back the hands of time i would he would still be here
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where's my happily ever after

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this is so hard to write. i’m holding back tears. i don’t know where to begin…i’m gonna be honest, i know im not that good looking…heck, ask any guy i know they would tell you i’m ugly right off the bat and today this person even screamed out how he thinks im so ugly. i don’t know whats wrong with me that nobody likes or wants me. im just tired of hearing no. i’m not looking for a fairy tale ending because i know i wont get one. ive been told numerous times how my head is up in the clouds dreaming of some rom com romance, but hey, i’m only human…cant a girl still dream? i’m not asking for prince charming…but where’s my happily ever after? please don’t tell me to wait it out….ive waited for years! most of my peers are married with kids with successful careers and have their whole life planned out. i thought i would have my life figured out by now too, but i don’t. it scares me to think about my future. i just hate hearing for the last time i fucking never did….over and over…it gets annoying after a while….i know life isn’t a movie, but can we act like it is? i just don’t want to die before the credits roll around.
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am i needy or justified?

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i'll try to keep this brief and thank anyone for their feedback and time in advance. i'm happily married for 4 yrs and been together for about 11 yrs now. by most standards, we have an awesome relationship. by that i mean, we love each other, for the most part we communicate well, we share goals and never really fight. i'm a very affectionate person with my wife and constantly caress and kiss her throughout the day. i do this because i'm just a loving person. with this in mind, i'm usually the one that initiates sex, i'm usually the one that initiates cuddling, i initiate a kiss, you get the idea. my wife is receptive to all of this and i do not feel in any way like she's forced to go along. my problem is that i don't receive this affection from her at all. she reciprocates for the most part when i initiate but she never initiates any of this affection. when she does, it makes me feel so loved and cared for and i feel like i'm at the top of the world. there's nothing better for me, especially when she does it in public. i have asked her repeatedly that i love it and i would like for her to be more affectionate but she has never changed or done anything about it. do you think i'm being needy? i hate to think that maybe she's just bored with me or our relationship. am i out of line continuing to press on this? i really don't want to ruffle any feathers by bringing it up over and over again because otherwise, our relationship is amazing and i'm just so grateful for everything else?
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to the person i was talking with, and potentially others whose depression seem incurable -

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sorry about the disconnect there! i hope you see this - if meds and therapy are not working, try a brain scan of your brain activity. i am no expert, but i am aware of the fact that mental health issues may be potentially caused by some physical damage to your brain. that's all. <3
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hesitant/scared to say sweet things to my s/o

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before the title misleads anyone, i have a healthy loving relationship of nearly 5 years with my s/o, i won't go into too much detail about it as i deem it not necessary. to also make the story easier to understand, i suffer from anxiety and panic attacks on and off and i'm a very sensitive person as it is. i had a rough childhood which has most likely contributed to some of these things carrying into my adult life. so my issue started a few months ago after my partner went through a very busy period in her life, where she would have less time to talk to me and less energy for most forms of intimacy. i'm normally very understanding of such periods, i understand they come and go with life and i don't think about them what so ever, i just go with the flow and let it pass and don't bother her about them too much. but this time for some reason, the lack of response to most of my advances and sweet things i would say would start to get to me, and my anxiety would start to run wild in my mind. i would get thoughts like, "what if she's lost interest in me", "what if i'm bothering her or making her stress worse", "this isn't a good time for this", and i would become desperate for her attention and seek it out in a more obsessive way, bombaring her with compliments and love. after a week of this, she sat me down to talk to me about it, and told me i'm overwhelming her and its very hard for her to respond to the constant stream of affection i'm pushing out and trying to receive. she made clear it's ok to feel needy especially when she's busy and that she understands, but sometimes she just has periods in her life where she feels less affectionate due to outside reasons for example; school, family, or any other reason out of the million very valid ones. when she told me this, i felt like my eyes had been opened and i realized what i had been doing, and felt extremely guilty and upset with myself, despite her telling me that it's alright and she feels better just from telling me about it, knowing i understand her. after the talk, i could visibly see her get better in a matter of days which made me extremely happy. i would give her the space she needs and get the affection i needed whenever she's able to give it, just as i had done every previous time something like this happened. i want to note that she's always made it clear to me that it's ok to upset her and that she's not going anywhere and that nothing bad actually happens when i do upset her. but the guilt i felt for overwhelming her and making her upset stayed with me, and i wasn't sure how to talk about it, as she was still busy for a little bit after the talk. she would of course listen to me whenever she had the energy and time, but sometimes when i would bring it up, she would get upset about it and i felt like i couldn't say what i wanted to say when i needed to. looking back i realize i should've reached out to my family or friends and talked to them about it to release the tension i felt. the whole thing caused me to spiral into a terrible wave of anxiety and overthinking thats lead to me feeling down and less interested in generally everything i've always been interested in and its been ongoing to this day. before all this, i would often think about our future and what i want to do etc, but due to the constant stream of anxiety going through my head, (often times it'd be about nothing in particular, just a black cloud in my head) i would find myself to be mentally exhausted most of the time. i would get thoughts about things like "what if she's lost interest in me/what if she leaves me" or when we would be lovey with eachother during this time, i'd get an intrusive thought telling me "what if you're doing too much or saying the wrong thing". this made it very hard to be lovey wether it came to receiving it or giving it to her. in turn and time, the thoughts would spiral into things like "what if i'm falling out of love, what if this is the end" and i would begin to doubt myself. i know by heart that these thoughts are just that, intrusive negative thoughts, and not reality, and not the way i feel, but it's killing me to have such thoughts interupt any form of intimacy we try to initiate. this all leaves me to the current situation today, i mostly feel better in regards to my anxiety, i still feel tired out from having to go through such a wave, but i feel like i have more good days than bad days now and im getting the hang of managing my anxiety. i also feel lovey and affectionate a little more often, and i'm beginning to get better at receiving it aswell now. but often when i feel like saying something sweet, i get stabbed by a quick thought saying " maybe it isn't a good time, maybe it's too much" and it upsets me, and sometimes deters me from saying what i really wanted to say. this back and forth i go through in my head really gets to me and makes my anxious mind worse. now i'm fully certain that what i'm experiencing is just my anxiety flaring up, and wether i'm in the middle of it, or at the end of it, it's still on going but it will get better as i get treatment and give it time and patience. that being said, i sometimes still get intrusive thoughts about the whole situation, and by the way, they can happen anytime, even while we would be in the middle of pillow talk, saying things like "what if it never gets better", "what if you don't feel lovey not because of being mentally exhausted, but simply because you don't feel love anymore", "what if you're just lying to yourself". although i know these to be untrue, as i could be feeling tremendous love 5 minutes before the thought arises, it still makes my mind flare up. i'm not sure if this whole thing makes sense, i tried to read through it to make sure it's atleast a little sensible. but what i'm here to ask is, how can i convince myself that she's okay and that she infact doens't get bothered by me being sweet to her and giving her love and that i'm not doing too much at all and that when she is bothered or out of energy, it's not about me or my fault? she makes it very clear with how she responds to me, how she acts and with what she tells me but for some odd reason my anxiety tends to still bug me about the same old thing, and it's really bothersome. i just wish to be rid of these thoughts, because literally everything is going perfectly right now, i'm as happy as i could ever hope for with the relationship and her, and from what i can see, it's also vice versa. we've been going super strong for 5 years and have always managed things like these, but i'd really appreciate if anyone would have any sort of insight to how to deal with anxiety so specific as this. tldr: perfect relationship, lovey girlfriend, we communicate well, yet i can't get rid of negative intrusive thoughts.
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whats wrong with me?

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i hate being so ugly that nobody wants or likes me. i’m not the kind of girl guys fall or fawn over…i’m not the trophy girl…far from it. i just hate being told how they have high standards and i don’t fit the bill or that i’m just too ugly for them. it’s not like i can wave a wand and make myself look different although some guys suggested i go under the knife before. i guess i’m just plain jane and i’m the girl you make fun of in the hallway or at lunch because i was so nerdy or you thought i was retarded and called me special…as in special ed! i mean i know i didn’t choose how i wanted to look (god created me) and that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but it hurts when someone shouts out how you’re ugly as fuck and how they feel sorry for the person that ends up with me. how come nobody wants me...what's wrong with me? why am i so flawed?
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is it wrong for me to dread seeing my "close" cousins + extended family everytime? i just don't get on with them well.

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this will seem petty and i don't know if i should feel this way as they haven't necessarily caused me any serious harm and seem generous, but sometimes i feel like their compassion is only done out of family obligation. i think its worth knowing that im a very introverted person and have suffered from depression and social anxiety for many years. but overtime, i've been seeking help here and there and my anxiety is not as severe as it used to be. i do feel confident and can hold my own in social situations now. and i realised that i really like conversing with and have met alot of amazing people/made friends that way. however, whenever it comes to outings with my extended family, it feels like all my experience and confidence just tends to crumble away. i just struggle to maintain any genuine connection with them. my parents and siblings seem to get on with them just fine, so im not exactly sure why this is the case. on the surface, there isn't anything wrong about my group of cousins, they all get along really well with my siblings and each other, they just don't seem to like interacting with me much... i've noticed that over the years my cousins have become more and more distant from me to a point our interactions just become awkward exchanges of polite small talk. sometimes they won't even greet me when i see them. and there will be times where i have to put more effort into talking with them to get them to engage with me more and they will seem more invested in talking to me and we'll have a great time. but then the very next time i see them again, they would treat me as a complete stranger all over again. with my siblings its a polar opposite treatment. they will warmly welcome them. it is exhausting having to see them over and over and make myself step out of my bubble to make any attempt of getting on with them when i can clearly see they are just not interested in talking with me. i just can't be bothered with them anymore. sometimes i feel its better to cut them out of my life so i can focus more on other aspects of my life. i've realised that when im not worrying about them i seem more happy in general. the only problem is that my immediate family perceive this as wrong and that because they are my relatives who have taken care of me, i shouldnt be selfish like this. and we regularly reunite each year for celebratory occasions such as birthdays etc making them unavoidable. not only that, but my group of cousins and siblings always proudly refer to each other as best friends just to emphasise how tight of a relationship they have. but what is the point if i can't be apart of it?
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how do i get them to leave me alone?

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i hate being cyber bullied online and even in person sometimes. i have problems, but sometimes feel as if im the only one struggling and having problems. i just hate the abuse i get and i hate how shitty my life is. i hate how people tell me to go kill myself because nobody fucken cares or wants anything to do with me. i just want them all to leave me alone...let me wallow in my pain, but they dont. things just get worst for me and i dont know what to do. how do i get them to leave me the fuck alone?
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how do i move on?

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what bothering me is well i hate dwelling in the past. i try so hard to move on and get over it, but it seems to be a repeating pattern. how do i move on and leave the past in the past? i had trouble dealing with it because its weird how the lies we tell ourselves to ease our own soul and become so convincing we believe the lies we told to be truthful, but its an endless cycle. why do we do that and how would one cope with the pain and humiliation all over again?
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