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health

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

does it make sense for a gynecologist doctor to break the woman’s hymen or no
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any women?

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● 🎂 Curious Glowing Cabbage

hi.. i am priya.. looking for chat with women ..prefer indian women
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hypocrite

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

you always telling other to keep their clothes on but you are no better neither. you’re a hypocrite if a woman feels comfortable in her own skin wearing outlandish bikinis that’s her choice she has the right to wear whatever she wants but you tell to have some class and respect herself, oh please you do just about the same why is a grown woman putting another grown woman down telling her she can or can’t wear that
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confused

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

i just found out that i’m 0.2% white european which i always constantly questioned myself about it. when i went on 23andme site got my results it was quite challenging
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what to expect

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

it seems this summer which is coming has me over the edge which is lift restrictions on mask which is a big step along with other things
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to the person i was talking with -

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● 👍7 💡1 Energetic Polished Garlic

sorry for the disconnect! if you happen to visit this page, one option for feedback is to post to this public forum (insights) and make a post. another is to go to the "about" page and email the creator of this website.
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risk

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

definitely on edge about not wearing mask anymore it’s big risk that’s about me permanent on friday for me it’s big adjustment i have to slowly adapt too and it’s not gonna be easy. i know people say they get tired of wearing masks because they sweat and everything
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strange error message in chat

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

i got a pop up dialog box repeatedly while chatting. it would keep reappearing despite hitting cancel. the text on the box said: sign in the proxy https://crin-8a29ae.dress-proceed.org requires a username and password. and it had two boxes, one for username and one for password. and two buttons, one for sign-in and one for cancel.
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i'm struggling & i'm happy we exist;

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● 💡17 Quirky Orchid Gazelle

hi there, i hope today's kind to you ! <3 please note the content warning of mentions of mental illness, trauma, family, work, homophobia, transphobia, racism, self-harm & suicide -- please note that i am safe, most of these are occasions in passing, i just wanted to ramble my thoughts out between therapy sessions, so please know this tends to be a text & emotionally heavy vent... as someone who is mentally ill and is dealing with childhood & accumulated trauma from my entire, immediate family & in an unemotionally supportive household while captioning the realities of the world at work, it is exhausting to live in a city and home where i feel isolated and after the suicide of my best friend, it still hurts, especially upon reliving it through the calls i caption while being unable to express how i feel to anyone at home unless i want things to worsen. i long to express myself for who i am, as someone who is gay and trans, yet i am not guaranteed whatever is left of my household if i were to, and since i cannot afford to live on my own while attending college and working (our family is already low-income, and i cannot work very long due to my mental and physical health) i can only try my best to be skillful, be kind, find hope, and take care when i can. i do not want to be as cruel as i feel the world can be, and i want to be a better person, i try to enjoy my interests and be critical of them, they tend to be the one thing i know in this home that will accept me, as well as my feelings, validate, and thank me for interacting with them; i'm also forever thankful for my online (best) friends who remind me there is love and goodness in the world, even if we may be separated by miles apart, i am beyond thankful for life, despite my years of self-harm and suicide attempts, i will be clean from now on, and i will live until my last breath, i will not die by my own hands no matter how much i feel it would be better, my suicidal baseline will not end me because i will live regardlessly. at times it is hard, though, i want to keep going. i'm just so tired and it hurts to deal with racism, discriminaton, homophobia, and transphobia on top of that... i know i am powerful, i know i am capable of being skillful, i know i can take care, i know i am worthy of love, friendship, happiness, and care, despite my struggles and household. i'm just tired, and i wish i could talk to my parents about how i feel, though, i will only be invalidated and i know this because this has been consistent in my life to the point that it is irrelevant to share the traumas i have experienced from my parents and siblings for they lack consistent empathy and validation towards me and continously fail to do so. i wish i had someone in this city, a dear friend i could trust and talk to about this, if possible, yet i don't, and i'm still trying to make friends, socializing & social cues have always been difficult for me, especially with the pandemic now. that's really all i have to say for now... thank you to anyone who reads this all, <3 i can share a piece of kindness i made for anyone else who needs a sign too, it's a little link to a document i made & try to share, which can be friendly reminder for us both...! thank you, even if you didn't read this, there are no worries, please know that i'm cheering you & i both on too... <3 (https://tinyurl.com/i-am-happy-you-exist)
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questions and answers

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

why are questions being deleted
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glitches

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● 💡22 💎1 Sweet Mahogany Goldfinch

hey all. apparently there are 8-9 people talking at once through mellowtalk right now, and perhaps it's because of this that i've been encountering some glitches. 1) the room closes seemingly at random 2) three (maybe more?) people sometimes get put in one room 3) sometimes the room "freezes", so to speak, and i cannot enter anything into the chat window. i think quite a few people are experiencing this right now, so i wanted to provide a thread to discuss it with others - you probably aren't alone in this :)
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wrong choice of food

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

my brother is obese and i’m concerned for him, i know it’s not my business to tell him what he should do in all, i just wanna see him healthy. he wanna to go to mcdonald’s and get double cheeseburgers shake i’m like you should be a gettin a salad not no double cheeseburger
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right or wrong for this?

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

just recently i had to talk to hr department because of an issue i’ve been having with one of the security guards who got rude and belligerent with me for no reason as well as giving me a nasty dirty attitude for no reason, i don't even know this man at all in regards of speaking with hr department i gave my side of what happened they looked at the video and saw how the guard came at me which was wrong on his part.
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what is the point of relationships

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

what is the point of relationships if they all end
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how can i learn mentalization?

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Loving Pink Dog

it is cognitive empathy.
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⭐ OFFICIAL CHAT SPREADSHEET ⭐

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● 👍10 💡3110 Big Boy Ben

hi everyone! by popular demand, i've made a little spreadsheet if you'd like to collaborate on listening times. i'm leaving this one with y'all, so use it as you see fit. thanks! => https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/15eXNJ3b4ZtREM--TRZllkHGnKwUjUJAUiKsnREon3bs/edit?usp=sharing
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chat window feature

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● 👍2 💡19 💎1 Warmly Silken Leopard

hi. im new so perhaps im not doing something correctly. i was chatting with someone earlier and the typing field, where i would type a response was located at the bottom of my screen. however, the chats filled the entire screen so the last chat was always directly behind my typing field. it made it hard to read sometimes. is there something i can do to move the typing field? thx! :)
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introduce myself :)

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● 👍2 💡19 💎1 Warmly Silken Leopard

hi guys! i see the site isnt as active as most would want. i just found this site after needed something like this myself recently. i will try to make myself available to talk most mornings as long as my current work situation permits. hope to get to know some of you better :) (why cant i make capital letters in here lol?)
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why am i not getting matched with anyone

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Bright Lavender Mango

i have been waiting on here for a while to vent to someone. why am i not getting matched? i come on here on different times of the day and still do not get matched.
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can it work

details 💬︎ reply 💎︎ ● Anonymous

if working things out can help fix issues in relationships can it also help bring reconciliation

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