posted by Anonymous on 23 December, 2022
its been a little less than a month since i found out my spouse of 8 years cheated on me. i feel like an idiot because i thought we were so in love. we had all these plans for the future and now they’re just gone. they asked to talk to me a few days ago, and they said that “there’s always a chance we could get back together. because true love always finds it’s way back” but they’re now in a relationship with the person they cheated with. did they think i was going to wait around for them? did they just want to see if the grass was greener on the other side? im torn because i don’t want to be used but i miss them so much, and i loved them to pieces. i don’t know how to move on without it hurting so much.
you need to find someone who respects you and doesn't hurt or want to hurt you. you deserve the world so make sure you get someone to treat you that way. avoid them, ignore them, don't let them play with your mind, don't let them use you. you are a strong person and you will move on, just give it time. i hope i helped with this advice.