posted by Anonymous on 23 December, 2022
its been a little less than a month since i found out my spouse of 8 years cheated on me. i feel like an idiot because i thought we were so in love. we had all these plans for the future and now they’re just gone. they asked to talk to me a few days ago, and they said that “there’s always a chance we could get back together. because true love always finds it’s way back” but they’re now in a relationship with the person they cheated with. did they think i was going to wait around for them? did they just want to see if the grass was greener on the other side? im torn because i don’t want to be used but i miss them so much, and i loved them to pieces. i don’t know how to move on without it hurting so much.
Anonymous ● 07 March, 2023 ⚓︎
im so sorry to hear that. it’s also been a month since my breakup as well :/ moving on can be so hard especially when you truly cared about someone and they led you to believe you could trust them for the future. it sounds like this person is trying to keep you around without thinking about your feelings, which is really cruel. just take it one day at a time friend! it gets better!