posted by Anonymous on 29 October, 2019
its tough to say this me and my sister aren’t speaking to our mom after threatened us not to tell our father her new occupation as a stripper .very disgusted at our mom is how we feel but not only that it’s very inconsiderate of her to even do something so risky too the point like is it really worth taking your clothes off
i'm really sorry that both you and your sister know of you mom's occupation. it is wrong that both you and your sister know your mother is a stripper before your father does. it is wrong that you have this information about your mother. i'm truly sorry how that information is weighing on you and your sister. with that being said, your mother is an adult who is making her own life-decisions. this occupation exists because clients exist. the sex-industry is very much real, filled with real people from different walks of life, there is a lot of bad as there is good in the sex-industry. strippers will not always end their performance completely nude. there is more dance and tease then there is flying on a pole naked. most times strippers can make next to nothing to a grand pay. so it is a gamble on the income of money as strippers are often contracted into the work, they don't get health benefits, they have to pay fee's to the stage their renting and there is no job security. know that the likely hood that this is temporary is very plausible. know that your mother is making her own decisions that she thinks is best for whatever reasons. you don't have to be happy with her life decisions just take a step back and understand that her life decision doesn't reflect you or your family. my advice is to tell your mother that you are not willing to be the person she confides in. that you don't think its fair that she told you any of this let alone let you in on a secret you have to withhold from your father. that was 100% inconsiderate of her and its damaging your relationship with both her and your father. that isn't right.
hi. is your mom stripping because she is trying to provide for you? maybe that could be the case. most women don't want to do anything in the sex industry unless they have to because they know their sexuality will sell and get them money. i know it's your mom and it's confusing. but try to see through her eyes. try to understand why she does what she does. and if you can't use caution when telling your dad or someone else. sometimes you can make situations much worse because you felt you needed to tell. stay strong.
hi there! have you tried to make her understand that being a stripper is something that could upset your father? and also something that upsets you and your sister? maybe she feels she's doing something wrong and that's why she threatened you. it's not, at all, excusable, but maybe it'd be a good idea to understand how it all began, her reasons to start doing it and why she doesn't want to tell your father.
Anonymous ● 29 October, 2019 ⚓︎
event the father is gonna know about it because if the daughters can’t say it to him quite sure somebody close him is gonna tell him about it