posted by Anonymous on 16 February, 2020
some life experience here that might help someone else
Anonymous ● 28 February, 2020 ⚓︎
maybe if your family is just causing you more harm than good, you shouldn't be obliged to stay there. you have a little baby and i hope you two have a wonderful life. maybe you should consider stabilizing yourself financially a bit and move out, to a new neighbourhood or a city or whatever. look around you, there must be a lot of ngo's and organizations that help women. you can work along with them and find people who understand you. and since your baby is so special, i hope you take good care. and once your good and settled you must get that guy reported, he'll ruin the lives of many other women otherwise. you've got this and you're stronger than you know. "just because the past didn't turn out as you wanted it to, doesn't mean the future can't be better than you ever imagined"
hello there! you've already had a great answer, and i surely agree with what has been said, but i'll just add that i'd be good if you had some professional health regarding your trauma. i understand it can be tough, especially if you find yourself with no regular income, but there are affordable ways to get some help. hope life treats you kindly, from now on, and please stay strong!