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what am i doing wrong?

posted by 💡3 Quirky Young Lilac on 21 May, 2019

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so literally in the last say 4 years i have had like 5-6 break ups. someof them not serious, a couple of them serious. and im not saying i dont make any mistakes but the breakups werent even cos of me fighting the reasons were- ex came back, still likes the ex, was cheating on me, ex threatened me- i dont want anyone etc. everyone makes mistakes in a relationship, and i have seen more controlling domineering and obnoxious ppl have stable relationships.. then y doesnt anyone choose me. why does everyone just scarper at the first opportunity, though they will be swearing eternal love like literally one night before. im tired, my self esteem is in tatters. it hurts to rise up broken, try to mend my heart and get it broken again. im in despair. im on meds fr depression too. please help.last breakup was so bad i went into acute attack, lost weight in like 15 days had continuous anxiety and tears. im so scared im not worthy of being loved and im a failure and ill die alone. i feel i cant go on




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Anonymous ● 22 May, 2019 ⚓︎


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have you considered seeing a professional? these thoughts are clearly very distressing and you could increase your quality of life by a lot

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Polite Teal Herring ● 25 May, 2019 ⚓︎


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emotions are really difficult to control. you just keep having a rush of things in your head, thought of how things got so bad and if love wasn’t just enough. trust me when i say the fault isn’t from you but them. stop hurting instead do those things you love doing, just anything,because the bottom line is that they really don’t care.they still wake up have a bath, breakfast, a laugh , a drink, chat with friends and all that . be strong enough to forge ahead and take care of yourself in the best possible way. self love goes a long way and believe me when i say time heals all things. and lastly don’t ever forget the lessons learnt.you will be fine😘

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Anonymous ● 22 May, 2019 ⚓︎


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it's not your fault. you'll find someone