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trust rant thingy

posted by 💡11 Festive Brown Moose on 31 July, 2020

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i really thought i knew my cousin well, they’re kind, silly, goofy, and just fun to be around however i recently broke up with my (ex) girlfriend and they have been talking to her in secrecy (ig) about how much of a terrible person i am and i just don’t really know who to trust anymore. i feel guilty because i looked at my cousin’s phone behind their back because i had suspicions but at the same time i also feel aggravated and despondent. they were talking to my ex about how messed up and problematic because of my asd and burning up the gifts that i gave to my ex and i just- idk anymore. i really shouldn’t have looked at their phone aaaosjwowo. thanks for reading this far haha

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Anonymous ● 07 August, 2020 ⚓︎

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i understand your frustration and how betrayed you may feel at this moment. i can't excuse what your cousins are doing behind your back but i've learned in life that sometimes it's best to let things go. you have to remember that your ex is an ex for a reason, someone you dated and will probably not be back in your life for whatever reasons you guys decided to break up for. you guys just didn't work out. with that in mind, just remember that whatever she may think of you or whatever your cousins are saying to feed the fire, you have to be the bigger person and move on. she will obviously find reasons to hate you, maybe its her process for moving on. you have to focus on moving on without looking back. if you made mistakes, then reflect and learn from them so that you may become a better person, but dwelling on the past or worrying about what your ex feels towards you should not be relevant to your future. cheers! best of luck my friend