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getting over it

posted by Anonymous on 19 December, 2021

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normally, i wouldn’t post, but i’ve been having major problems. i don’t know what happen, but i’ve been thinking about someone a lot lately and i hate it. the person made it clear numerous times they didn’t want anything to do with me and my feelings weren’t reciprocated. i've tried numerous times to forget they ever existed, but small things would trigger me to think about them and i fall back… sometimes even crying myself to sleep because it’s pretty depressing. i don’t know how to let go of the only love i’ve ever truly known. please help me move on. i need all the help i can get.




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another nice way to move on is to meet other people. we all want to be special to someone and all want to be in a rewarding relationship. so when our brains are thinking that its only possible what that one person, of course it will be hard to move on. introduce your brain to others. even if its not a love connection, do on some dates. once your brain realizes that you can connect with others, it will be easier for it to not be so stuck

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Anonymous ● 14 January, 2022 ⚓︎


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thank you! i agree we all want to be with that special someone and be in a rewarding relationship. i think you’re right i should put myself out there and find someone else to take up my time, but i live in a small town….everyone knows everybody. i’m going to be honest and the abuse i get from people telling me i’m not pretty enough and how he only gave me attention because he thought i was really ugly and was making fun of me and i mistook it for him being nice and liking me, so i blame myself. its pretty sad that i became obsess with him and thinking i had a future when he never cared or liked me at all, so i think you’re right maybe it’s a mental thing….maybe i should focus more on myself and forget he ever existed. thank you! i hope you have a wonderful day.

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Anonymous ● 23 December, 2021 ⚓︎


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tbh i think it'll just take time, and you might have to be learn to accept idk the sadness that naturally comes with this kind of thing. a good thing to do would be to distract yourself with work /fun other things i mean kinda generic advice but it's true ~ it's hard to get over someone i think but eventually you will i swear ~

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Anonymous ● 14 January, 2022 ⚓︎


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thank you! yeah, i know it takes time, but i just want to stop thinking about them and yes, i’m aware of the sadness that comes with this type of thing as in crying myself to sleep. i’ve tried everything under the sun to not think about them and yes, i’ve distract myself with work and fun things like you mentioned, but i fall back thinking about them. i have a habit of saying his name randomly. it’s pretty annoying and i hate myself for it. hopefully, i will get over all this nonsense and find someone right for me. i’m just sick of getting my heart broken from the same guy and like you mentioned he swore to god he never liked or wanted me and today he said christ you’re ugly. i don’t know what to think, but i just know i should move on with my life and try my best to forget everything about him.