← back to forum


posted by 👍2 💡11 Little Silver Peony on 03 November, 2019

💬︎ reply 💎︎

i feel a bit embarrassed to be writing this. please bear with me. i have this friend who is one year older than me. i am obsessed with her. my mind is constantly on her and i just can't stop wishing that she would notice me for once. everyday in school i search the hallways for her, and whenever she says hi or even looks my way i feel ridiculously happy for the rest of the day. when she doesn't notice me, i have this strange feeling of disappointment. i keep texting and emailing her, keep trying to get her attention. i just can't stop. i feel like i'm being needy and i'm probably being really annoying to her. deep inside i know this is unhealthy, but i really can't stop thinking about her. it's not a crush or anything, i'm not lesbian. i just want her to see me. can you help me stop this obsession?

posting anonymously

2 insights

1 💡

💡62 💎2 Delightful Scarlet Jellyfish ● 03 November, 2019 ⚓︎

💬︎ reply

posting anonymously

hi there! you don't have to feel embarrassed at all, this is actually a common feeling. do you have any idea about what could be causing this obsession? is there anything about this girl that draws your attention, anything particular? how would you describe your relationship with her?

0 💡

Anonymous ● 04 November, 2019 ⚓︎

💬︎ reply

posting anonymously

it might be a little crush :) nothing wrong with that i refused to believe i was gay for the longest time and instead i would form these weird little intense interests in other guys at my school. eventually i realized the extreme interest i had was just me crushing a little bit. its normal it happens!