posted by Anonymous on 25 January, 2023
my wife of almost 10 years has been acting strangely. she texts her coworker after work until past midnight everyday. its been this way for about 3 months now. they hang out about 3-4 days a week after work till about 10pm. i asked her if she had feelings for him and she said no. that she cares for him like a best friend. i found receipts for plan b and pregnancy tests on the floor one day. when i asked her she said it was for a different coworker. she bought them for her because she was to embarrassed to get them herself. i love my wife more then anything and i don’t want to lose her. i want to believe her because i know if i do everything will be like it used to be. but i can’t trust her anymore. and i’ve become so paranoid and questioning every little thing she does. or anytime she leaves the house with friends. i can’t live like this but she won’t admit anything. even when i tell her that it’s okay if she did that i would forgive her. its driving me insane beyond belief. i don’t want to be here anymore.
Lit Speckled Cherry ● 26 February, 2023 ⚓︎
umm, it seems like your wife has a bug in her brain. she texts her coworker like crazy because she met a person in her life. you should have brunch together, you 3, at a cafe. and meet each other.
Fair Brown Willow ● 21 March, 2023 ⚓︎
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Anonymous ● 04 February, 2023 ⚓︎
first of all, i'm not married, so i don't know what to tell you, but the love i know doesn't expect someone to love you back, and if we have the same meaning of the word love, then you will have peace... hopefully! but if you have strong evidence that your wife cheated on you, which i hope she did not, then i think you really have the right to let go, but hopefully you can forgive her and still work out your marriage together and have a peaceful life!
Anonymous ● 11 February, 2023 ⚓︎
i'm not married, but i don't agree with the first comment. if she actually cheated on you, i think you deserve someone who respects you enough to be honest and faithful with you. if they considered you as their equal, they would not have lied about cheating.
Anonymous ● 11 February, 2023 ⚓︎
i am the author of the first comment, and i totally agree with you! and by the way, i said in the first comment that he should still love her as long as he doesn't have strong evidence that his wife cheated on him. i didn't say he should tolerate his wife if he has strong evidence.