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can you not fix what was once broken?

posted by Anonymous on 25 January, 2023

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my wife of almost 10 years has been acting strangely. she texts her coworker after work until past midnight everyday. its been this way for about 3 months now. they hang out about 3-4 days a week after work till about 10pm. i asked her if she had feelings for him and she said no. that she cares for him like a best friend. i found receipts for plan b and pregnancy tests on the floor one day. when i asked her she said it was for a different coworker. she bought them for her because she was to embarrassed to get them herself. i love my wife more then anything and i don’t want to lose her. i want to believe her because i know if i do everything will be like it used to be. but i can’t trust her anymore. and i’ve become so paranoid and questioning every little thing she does. or anytime she leaves the house with friends. i can’t live like this but she won’t admit anything. even when i tell her that it’s okay if she did that i would forgive her. its driving me insane beyond belief. i don’t want to be here anymore.

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i'm not married, but i don't agree with the first comment. if she actually cheated on you, i think you deserve someone who respects you enough to be honest and faithful with you. if they considered you as their equal, they would not have lied about cheating.

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i am the author of the first comment, and i totally agree with you! and by the way, i said in the first comment that he should still love her as long as he doesn't have strong evidence that his wife cheated on him. i didn't say he should tolerate his wife if he has strong evidence.