posted by Anonymous on 25 January, 2023
my wife of almost 10 years has been acting strangely. she texts her coworker after work until past midnight everyday. its been this way for about 3 months now. they hang out about 3-4 days a week after work till about 10pm. i asked her if she had feelings for him and she said no. that she cares for him like a best friend. i found receipts for plan b and pregnancy tests on the floor one day. when i asked her she said it was for a different coworker. she bought them for her because she was to embarrassed to get them herself. i love my wife more then anything and i don’t want to lose her. i want to believe her because i know if i do everything will be like it used to be. but i can’t trust her anymore. and i’ve become so paranoid and questioning every little thing she does. or anytime she leaves the house with friends. i can’t live like this but she won’t admit anything. even when i tell her that it’s okay if she did that i would forgive her. its driving me insane beyond belief. i don’t want to be here anymore.
Anonymous ● 11 February, 2023 ⚓︎
i am the author of the first comment, and i totally agree with you! and by the way, i said in the first comment that he should still love her as long as he doesn't have strong evidence that his wife cheated on him. i didn't say he should tolerate his wife if he has strong evidence.