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i just tried to pass as a guy to feel better

posted by 💡3 Neutral Olive Banana on 24 February, 2022

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i was gettin kinda down and just tried to cheer myself by trying to look more masculine and took some pics and i showed them to 2 friends that made me feel better in way by saying i looked good as a guy .... they know im like this but also dont ? i felt happy for a moment but i cant avoid but feeling kinda confused whether im a trans guy in denial or non binary cuz well its not like i experience much dysphoria anyway.... for some years i started feeling like something's off bout my gender and held onto the label non binary but i never came out for real...idk what i should do ik i would like to look like a guy and perhaps pass as one but im afraid to come out about this to anyone ... which makes not want to be too close to people afraid they wont accept me for my messy me cuz yea guess im a confused,depressed mess .... and imma stop rambling here thanks for reading this anyway

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Anonymous ● 07 April, 2022 ⚓︎

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i’m not really qualified to answer this, but reading this just made me think of some things. first of all, you don’t need to have terrible dysphoria to be trans, or even any at all. second, i don’t know what you think about pronouns, but maybe try writing/saying sentences about yourself using he/him and they/them pronouns. maybe one will feel more right? also, some people use multiple pronouns (ex. he/him and they/them). some labels for that could be (but doesn’t have to be) demigender, genderfluid, bigender, etc. sorry, now i’m rambling. good luck :)