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posted by 💡7 Festive Brown Moose on 22 April, 2020

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my girlfriend has been cheating on me for over a year and i don’t know what i should do

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💡127 💎2 Delightful Scarlet Jellyfish ● 30 April, 2020 ⚓︎

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there's nothing wrong with being in a polyamory relationship, as long as everyone gives their consent. obviously, even though you accept her preferences, you are not comfortable including other people in your relationship, which is completely fine. however, it also means that her behavior is unacceptable, because she's not respecting your wishes. nevertheless, the fact that she told you she was poly might mean two things: either she's really confused about what she wants and she's trying to figure it out or she's already made up her mind and is currently trying to justify her cheating. either way, i think it's better if you talk to her and figure it out, because, at the end of the day, those might mean different things. and, as in everything else, you can't rightfully make a decision without being informed.