posted by Anonymous on 05 August, 2019
i don't know what to do with myself. i never feel like i'm good enough or have the capability to be good enough, and hearing "it gets better" hasn't done me any good. i'm a mess and it's like nothing works. i'm not normal and i'm not capable like everyone else is. my boyfriend is just as depressed and so relying on him isn't an option right now because he needs me to rely on, so it just feels like i've got nowhere to go. i'm running out of options.
Anonymous ● 13 August, 2019 ⚓︎
not everyone is going through the same thing. some solutions work differently for each person. it is about finding what works for you. it is kind of you to share you experience, but don't assume it is exactly the same. she should help herself first before focusing on her boyfriend's emotions.