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whats wrong with me?

posted by Anonymous on 26 July, 2021

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i hate being so ugly that nobody wants or likes me. i’m not the kind of girl guys fall or fawn over…i’m not the trophy girl…far from it. i just hate being told how they have high standards and i don’t fit the bill or that i’m just too ugly for them. it’s not like i can wave a wand and make myself look different although some guys suggested i go under the knife before. i guess i’m just plain jane and i’m the girl you make fun of in the hallway or at lunch because i was so nerdy or you thought i was retarded and called me special…as in special ed! i mean i know i didn’t choose how i wanted to look (god created me) and that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but it hurts when someone shouts out how you’re ugly as fuck and how they feel sorry for the person that ends up with me. how come nobody wants me...what's wrong with me? why am i so flawed?




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Anonymous ● 27 July, 2021 ⚓︎


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you aren't flawed because of something external like looks. you have a beauty so unique and wonderful that not everyone is willing to see, because some people are shallow and insecure, too caught in their own reality to see past what is beyond their faces. but you know that you are wonderful, and you grace everyone who meets you. and you are loved, by your family and your friends, and by all who can see your inherent beauty. and you are strong, so strong for enduring everything the universe throws at you because of something you cannot control. you have so much more strength than what anyone could imagine, and you should appreciate that about yourself, because that kind of strength makes you someone so capable and enduring.

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Anonymous ● 28 July, 2021 ⚓︎


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you can try hair extensions, make-up, etc...or you can just not give a damn. find something that really excites and interests you, like art (get a sketchbook!) or music or whatever! find out what your favorite color is and wear it always! do things that make you feel good! stop caring so much what other people think. a good partner cares about your personality and the fact you like them...not what you look like. start liking yourself more and trust me, you'll attract people whether you want to or not!

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Anonymous ● 07 August, 2021 ⚓︎


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you're very hard on yourself. would you be that judgmental of anyone else. take a look at how you think about yourself and make a decision to be kind to yourself. the most important thing you can do is put yourself first and treat yourself with respect. people who yell nasty things at other people are not worth your consideration. seriously, treat yourself like you love yourself and everyone else can go jump.