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asexuality?

posted by Anonymous on 15 April, 2019

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ive recently been looking into the topic and was thinking i kinda relate? im 16 and a girl and i feel romantic attraction (i want to hug and kiss someone) but i don’t have any interest in going further with those i crush on, nor do i find people ‘sexy’ or ‘hot’. i am interested in the idea of sex though, but i have never had it so i cannot differ from just curiosity or just a want to have it. idk guys, just looking for an outside opinion. thanks :)




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Anonymous ● 16 April, 2019 ⚓︎


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you may not be ready for sex or you may be asexual. either way is totally fine. maybe you're gay. who knows. the sky's the limit. the key is just to enjoy life :)

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Anonymous ● 16 April, 2019 ⚓︎


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i thought i was gay for a while bc i was never attracted to the opposite sex. but i never really wanted to hook up with someone just sort of cuddle. ive been living as an asexual person now for a while and it is way less stressful. best of luck to you!

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Anonymous ● 16 April, 2019 ⚓︎


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yeah i realized i was asexual around when i was 17. i just didnt want to fuck anyone. i didnt get why people were so obsessed with it all the time. and still are! it drives me crazy! youll figure it out. im having a great time just being friends with people but finding a partner who doesn't want sex is so. hard. dont force yourself into situations you dont want like i did. just be you. no judgement here. ;)

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Anonymous ● 16 April, 2019 ⚓︎


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definitely dont have sex just for the sake of having sex. find someone worthwhile first thats my advice