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posted by Anonymous on 15 November, 2018

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my boyfriend had recently broken up with me saying that he just stressed and how he felt he just deeply cared for me but he felt that he just thought a relationship wasnt very good for him, when a girl told me otherwise i asked my friends to investigate,he said he just didnt want one no more. i plan to text him one more time and tell him hoe i feel before we act like strangers again. is this a good plan?




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Anonymous ● 18 November, 2018 ⚓︎


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hello, there is plenty of reason to feel like you do. breakups are never easy at any point in life and it is perfectly okay to feel this way. unfortunately, when it comes to relationships, people tend to be very critical of themselves. it is very common to be go over and over why someone broke up and even jump to conclusions without any real reason. the reality is you don't really know why things happened the way they did or how things will turn out. communication is always a good thing in any situation, but there is no reason to blame yourself if he doesn't reciprocate your feelings. i suppose what i'm trying to say is if you think calling him will give you closure, then go for it. but understand that you don't fully know why he does the things he does or his history making him act this way. just take it easy, give it time, and don't put yourself in a situation where you could get more hurt.

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Anonymous ● 18 November, 2018 ⚓︎


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talking is always good. i say why not

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Anonymous ● 18 November, 2018 ⚓︎


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i'm sorry! that sucks and you should definitely talk to other people about what happened. when i broke up with my long time boyfriend, my friends helped my through everything!

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Anonymous ● 18 November, 2018 ⚓︎


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you'll feel better in a few weeks for sure. just wait a bit and you will feel better it happens to everyone

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Anonymous ● 18 November, 2018 ⚓︎


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i would do it, what's the worst that could happen