posted by Anonymous on 06 January, 2020
my parent thinks i'm useless and i know that already but it hurts so bad. i just think its better for me to not exists. i have everything pent up inside and i know it's not good but what can i do. i'll never be good enough. not for myself, not for parents nor for anyone. i am not brave enough to end this but i am so tired of felling bad about everything. i just want everything to end
why do you think this? is it because you do not have a job? because you don't get good grades? because you don't help around the house enough? these are all actions you could change. i don't think you're useless. every human has the power to do something. don't give up. i've felt like this many times. if you truly think and know that your parents think your useless then maybe they don't have the right idea about you. you're worth something, i promise.
hey there.. it sucks that youve experienced this. but i dont think anybody in the world is useless. they have their own part to play. "you are the only one who can be you... so be the best you" you arent useless. especially not to your parents. youve given them valuable memories, laughter and happy moments too. you dont know it but youve given them a purpose in life to work for.. to care for and to live for. all the things mustve been in the heat of the moment. try taking to them in a much calmer setting and work it out. youve said you have pent up stuff. we are here to listen and help you out. or atleast share our own experiences and support you. if you wish for a change , be the change..they say. even the simplest of changes make an impact when you feel low. try having a routine, friend. one step after the other. it does help.
parents always have a rather larger expectation from their children but believing their every word is not correct. i understand you're feeling bad about yourself, but you are good and you are enough. for those who do not get your worth, are useless to your time.
i feel this way alot and i try to remember that a grater power woke me up this morning and designed the moon a nd stars and clouds and trees that i think are so beautiful and never judged and that i am designed in the same way making a journey only i can contribute. what if you had a 100 dollar bill and crumbled it up and got it dirty and tore the corner. would you look at it and say that its useless and throw it away or would the value of it be the same in any form. my dad committed suicide and it will always hurt. i miss him everyday. don’t make a long term choice to accept peoples mean harsh judgement. make your own value decision and move on with finding your joy in the universe you were created for.
Anonymous ● 21 January, 2020 ⚓︎
nobody in this world is useless you just need time to figure out what are you really into what makes you interesting and maybe your parents are trying to help you in their own way