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i'm asexual... where do i go from here?

posted by Anonymous on 30 November, 2020

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hey guys! i've known it for some time, but it never bothered me that much. the thing is, it feels really lonely. sex is such an important part of our society, it makes me feel like an outsider. i really don't have much to ask, i have pretty much figured it out by now, but i'd like to know if someone has some insight about this or maybe something they wanna share. hope y'all are doing great, btw!

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Anonymous ● 02 December, 2020 ⚓︎

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for me, i'm not really experienced sexually, but i know that even though i have spikes, most of the time i'm not interested in sex. what helps is finding someone with a lower, or non existant sex drive. also, don't underestimate the power of intimacy. feeling loved can make up for a lack of sex in a lot of relationships. it really depends on what you're both trying to get out of a relationship.