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i'm asexual... where do i go from here?

posted by Anonymous on 30 November, 2020

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hey guys! i've known it for some time, but it never bothered me that much. the thing is, it feels really lonely. sex is such an important part of our society, it makes me feel like an outsider. i really don't have much to ask, i have pretty much figured it out by now, but i'd like to know if someone has some insight about this or maybe something they wanna share. hope y'all are doing great, btw!

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Anonymous ● 02 December, 2020 ⚓︎

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i realized i was asexual at 38. i did come out to a few people, which has helped with people constantly asking me stupid questions like when i am going to get a boyfriend. the main difference it has made for me is that i am more comfortable with myself. i am not trying to force myself into things or figure out why it isn't working for me. i am free of all that now. my life has gotten a lot better in seemingly unrelated ways. i have lost a lot of weight, gotten more active, etc.