⚓︎yes, the truth is......................you really need extra blankets. take out 3 blankets. place them on your bed. sleep on them. cover way too much. that's what you need.
⚓︎that's true, it's kind of annoying really. you shouldn't feel too intimidated by this. but actually, you really need to know that dating is like everything that weddings are not. in real life.
⚓︎you definitely have to make a public blog or profile. just and answer all the blog challenges you can find and make yourself known. the right people will just pass by your profile. attach some chat option there...or a website where you can chat with newfound friends.
⚓︎uhhmmm, that's an interesting point of view. actually, they might want to tell us if they're also experiencing any problems and perhaps they might want to share their "feelings" with us some more.
⚓︎thank you very much. actually, it's a pleasure to know that. you might want to spend your time on chat also and just struggle with people and with words and perfect your social skills.
⚓︎i think i might admit that i also don't know why several options that are seemingly last on the list of things you would ever want to do are just...i don't know? i don't know why they never cross my mind? you can make continuing research from your college days on academia.edu using online databases. you can self-publish books. you can blog professionally when it comes to current events and problems. you can volunteer to blog about the news...and spend time online on random chat. you can develop different kinds of graphic design techniques then upload them on deviantart....because of current events and situations. you can do all of those things when life is really way too impossible for anybody.
⚓︎keeping occupied might not really help in your situation unless you make a public blog profile....and answer many personal questions just to let someone out there know who you are and what you're going thru.
⚓︎just keep updating your blog. make a separate public profile and just update your often. very often. answer blog challenges...and answer all the blog challenges that you can find. answer all the questions. just post often.
⚓︎you need to enter and submit things on your blog much more often than you think. update your blog. then make a separate public profile or blog. just answer blog challenges and post often.
⚓︎i think all you want to do...is hear yourself talk. you should try making a pretend-chat sequence on your blog or word processor then just chat with yourself. hear yourself speak.
⚓︎do something nice for your husband. wear a nice dress, and cook him something romantic. set the table and place candles and flowers there. have a date in the dining room.
⚓︎you should honestly turn back the time already. grab a calendar. choose a date to when it never even happened. then go outside and give your guy roses and a box of chocolates wearing a white dress.
⚓︎ahahahaha i think what you should do is also keep a blog...with a public profile. where you state that you're "single". and just answer all the blog challenges that you can find and kind of fill it up and stuff. and just pretend to be lame but loveable.
⚓︎don't worry. do something easy like this, bring candy to class. on the next day. since you sit pretty close to that guy. make the candy a bit romantic, like chocolate. give all your classmates candy if he's not that close. or give your seatmate candy. :) goodluck
⚓︎from my vantage point, maybe i think that you should kind of.....place a notice on your webpage that you're single. then kind of...do a blog challenge kind of thing and just answer questions since you might not really have much to do or much to explore without a boyfriend or without a date. actually, just sit tight at home if you don't have a date right now. just blog and write things. just answer blog challenges and make sure you look like a lame but loveable person.
⚓︎umm, don't count calories unless you're a medical professional haha. just stick to something easy like a vegan diet. then just eat all you have. that's way easier.
⚓︎that's really terrible. most of all, you should have a line of communication jotted down and saved right away. now, if your wife has wandering feelings, you should really try sending a daily message for her, even if it really builds up. if she ever wants to reply, she can just look back and know that you've been caring. 1 message per day.
⚓︎here use this app as a regular journal: https://notesnook.com/ separate each issue you have and review them later after you've released your feelings.
⚓︎an unpaid worker: that's definitely difficult to answer. actually, the real issue would be your own sense of achievement and capability. choose some endeavor like volunteering or fiction writing or self-publishing or blogging that makes you feel capable. the money could come later when you have more confidence.
⚓︎households work like this: bond savings accounts. households really work on a frame of lumpsums. not cumulative monthly sums. households are built on stability. if there's a guy who cheats on his wife.....this is like, figuratively an "incomplete downpayment" somehow, emotionally, it acts the same way. he's not invested: in simple words.
⚓︎i have a feeling that you might be always in a crowd or something, but find out that you really felt alone the whole time. the truth is, this is kind of like classic depression. umm, if you've ever been like a french person, you should leave all your feelings in a journal (an online journal app with password) then just hope the right person will be able to read that. then just let go of how alone you feel and go after something that you like, even if you're really by yourself.
⚓︎what makes you like yourself that's not necessarily social? would you like to be a cleaner person? would you like to sound clearer to yourself? little things like that help you appreciate yourself matter.
⚓︎why;;; when it comes to guys;;; relationships really/// you know you should invest in a relationship;;; it's one thing to not be formal with guys;;; also/// you must be;;; like,,, you must know;;; that it's like crossing a line or a divide of gender;;; so if there's a guy you like;;; this guy is/// someone you invest in;;; like you know;;; you give half of your heart to that guy/// for real.
⚓︎umm;;; if you wanna find a date/// enroll in an online coaching program or self-help newsletter//// to help you become more confident;; just follow the advice;; it's really going to tell you something along the lines of take a class somewhere;; pick up a new hobby/// meet new friends;;; while you're really trying to feel better, like, enough, to go and date someone.
⚓︎why;; 30s could just be the beginning of adulthood for some;;; in real life/// being 20-something really makes you look like a vlogger with makeup hauls and mukbangs. why;;; you could admit that you're old enough to manage your own house;; if you're in your 30s
⚓︎why/// it's really time to start ''eating out'';;; go eat out by yourself/// don't try to order take out then hide in your room;;; you should go to a restaurant and have a meal by yourself;;
⚓︎why/// i understand;;; you should actually enroll in something like a hobby, job, social club to distract yourself from interfering with your mom and her relationships; why/// she is old and grown;;; get involved in a proper social circle/// don't hang around in the house;;; during times of conflict.