Lit Speckled Cherry

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🎂 03 May, 2022

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does anyone here lose sleep over their anxiety?
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ yes, the truth is......................you really need extra blankets. take out 3 blankets. place them on your bed. sleep on them. cover way too much. that's what you need.

mood
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ that's true, it's kind of annoying really. you shouldn't feel too intimidated by this. but actually, you really need to know that dating is like everything that weddings are not. in real life.

new here
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ you definitely have to make a public blog or profile. just and answer all the blog challenges you can find and make yourself known. the right people will just pass by your profile. attach some chat option there...or a website where you can chat with newfound friends.

this site
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ uhhmmm, that's an interesting point of view. actually, they might want to tell us if they're also experiencing any problems and perhaps they might want to share their "feelings" with us some more.

people on here
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ thank you very much. actually, it's a pleasure to know that. you might want to spend your time on chat also and just struggle with people and with words and perfect your social skills.

need guidance and encouragement going back to work
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ i think i might admit that i also don't know why several options that are seemingly last on the list of things you would ever want to do are just...i don't know? i don't know why they never cross my mind? you can make continuing research from your college days on academia.edu using online databases. you can self-publish books. you can blog professionally when it comes to current events and problems. you can volunteer to blog about the news...and spend time online on random chat. you can develop different kinds of graphic design techniques then upload them on deviantart....because of current events and situations. you can do all of those things when life is really way too impossible for anybody.

losing a friend
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ keeping occupied might not really help in your situation unless you make a public blog profile....and answer many personal questions just to let someone out there know who you are and what you're going thru.

losing a friend
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ just keep updating your blog. make a separate public profile and just update your often. very often. answer blog challenges...and answer all the blog challenges that you can find. answer all the questions. just post often.

ptsd
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ you need to enter and submit things on your blog much more often than you think. update your blog. then make a separate public profile or blog. just answer blog challenges and post often.

i want new friends
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ i think all you want to do...is hear yourself talk. you should try making a pretend-chat sequence on your blog or word processor then just chat with yourself. hear yourself speak.

just discovered my spouse is cheating
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ do something nice for your husband. wear a nice dress, and cook him something romantic. set the table and place candles and flowers there. have a date in the dining room.

crush advice?
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ don't worry. just make a public profile and answer blog challenges all the way. he might just arrive, interested and all.

husband cheated
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ you should honestly turn back the time already. grab a calendar. choose a date to when it never even happened. then go outside and give your guy roses and a box of chocolates wearing a white dress.

health scare
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ you should just drink lots of water and drain out the toxins.

letting be known
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ you have to buy sean a box of heart-shaped chocolates. and give it to him. then wear a dress.

battery
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ ahahahaha i think what you should do is also keep a blog...with a public profile. where you state that you're "single". and just answer all the blog challenges that you can find and kind of fill it up and stuff. and just pretend to be lame but loveable.

should i ask for this guys snap
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ don't worry. do something easy like this, bring candy to class. on the next day. since you sit pretty close to that guy. make the candy a bit romantic, like chocolate. give all your classmates candy if he's not that close. or give your seatmate candy. :) goodluck

how do you move on?
30 December, 2022
⚓︎ from my vantage point, maybe i think that you should kind of.....place a notice on your webpage that you're single. then kind of...do a blog challenge kind of thing and just answer questions since you might not really have much to do or much to explore without a boyfriend or without a date. actually, just sit tight at home if you don't have a date right now. just blog and write things. just answer blog challenges and make sure you look like a lame but loveable person.

vent (tw possible ed)
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ umm, don't count calories unless you're a medical professional haha. just stick to something easy like a vegan diet. then just eat all you have. that's way easier.

my wife cheated and i’m so embarrassed
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ that's really terrible. most of all, you should have a line of communication jotted down and saved right away. now, if your wife has wandering feelings, you should really try sending a daily message for her, even if it really builds up. if she ever wants to reply, she can just look back and know that you've been caring. 1 message per day.

mental illness
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ here use this app as a regular journal: https://notesnook.com/ separate each issue you have and review them later after you've released your feelings.

loser
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ an unpaid worker: that's definitely difficult to answer. actually, the real issue would be your own sense of achievement and capability. choose some endeavor like volunteering or fiction writing or self-publishing or blogging that makes you feel capable. the money could come later when you have more confidence.

not caring about the damage that’s been done
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ households work like this: bond savings accounts. households really work on a frame of lumpsums. not cumulative monthly sums. households are built on stability. if there's a guy who cheats on his wife.....this is like, figuratively an "incomplete downpayment" somehow, emotionally, it acts the same way. he's not invested: in simple words.

alone
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ i have a feeling that you might be always in a crowd or something, but find out that you really felt alone the whole time. the truth is, this is kind of like classic depression. umm, if you've ever been like a french person, you should leave all your feelings in a journal (an online journal app with password) then just hope the right person will be able to read that. then just let go of how alone you feel and go after something that you like, even if you're really by yourself.

likeable
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ what makes you like yourself that's not necessarily social? would you like to be a cleaner person? would you like to sound clearer to yourself? little things like that help you appreciate yourself matter.

likeable
13 December, 2022
⚓︎ you know, to be likeable, i think it really helps to be normal. perhaps that's enough that's need to be said.

i want to be pretty so badly
06 May, 2022
⚓︎ have a healthy juice drink like guava juice or orange juice. eating natural foods really just make you feel good. it's healthy;;; it's a pleasure.

whats done is done
06 May, 2022
⚓︎ ask a friend who you know;;; is from the postal office/// or has a delivery job;;; to also/// like;;; send a message to her;;;

all they do is cause me pain...
04 May, 2022
⚓︎ why;;; when it comes to guys;;; relationships really/// you know you should invest in a relationship;;; it's one thing to not be formal with guys;;; also/// you must be;;; like,,, you must know;;; that it's like crossing a line or a divide of gender;;; so if there's a guy you like;;; this guy is/// someone you invest in;;; like you know;;; you give half of your heart to that guy/// for real.

how do i find a date
03 May, 2022
⚓︎ umm;;; if you wanna find a date/// enroll in an online coaching program or self-help newsletter//// to help you become more confident;; just follow the advice;; it's really going to tell you something along the lines of take a class somewhere;; pick up a new hobby/// meet new friends;;; while you're really trying to feel better, like, enough, to go and date someone.

nothing i do is enough
03 May, 2022
⚓︎ i think that's a sign that you should join a sports club for socializing and stuff;;; you should get active;;; join a jogging group or something;;

diffcult in coming to terms with being 31
03 May, 2022
⚓︎ why;; 30s could just be the beginning of adulthood for some;;; in real life/// being 20-something really makes you look like a vlogger with makeup hauls and mukbangs. why;;; you could admit that you're old enough to manage your own house;; if you're in your 30s

telling who what they should eat and shouldn’t
03 May, 2022
⚓︎ why/// it's really time to start ''eating out'';;; go eat out by yourself/// don't try to order take out then hide in your room;;; you should go to a restaurant and have a meal by yourself;;

punched my mom’s boyfriend
03 May, 2022
⚓︎ why/// i understand;;; you should actually enroll in something like a hobby, job, social club to distract yourself from interfering with your mom and her relationships; why/// she is old and grown;;; get involved in a proper social circle/// don't hang around in the house;;; during times of conflict.