to all the people who have tried to help:
thanks. really. i love you guys for being so kind.
anyway, she moved. i don't see her anymore. gradually, i stopped thinking about her so much. now, we're still friends but it's a healthy relationship. my boyfriend has also been really supportive regarding this.
thank you all for being so sweet :)
⚓︎hey, im sorry i'm a little late, but i just wanted to say thank you for opening up to this site. it takes a lot to talk about your personal issues with likely strangers. we will help you.
you shouldn't be afraid to open up to your doctor. i can assure you that your doctor isn't going to tell your parents. that would be against patient confidentiality regulations.
you have to open up to someone. mellowtalk helps, but you need someone you trust and who can actually be there physically for you. we can try to help, but it's not always that helpful to be talking to someone who’s possibly, probably from another country, who doesn’t know you personally, who doesn’t even know your real name.
it’s not easy to be going through this. to be honest, it sucks. but you will get through it. i promise. stay strong.
⚓︎it's great that you have someone you can talk to! you should always have someone there for you, it will make everything so much easier.
no, i think it's not about the depression, it might be just growing up or maybe your taste just changed. im not the expert on that though, so i wouldn't really know.
just wanted to let you know that we're here for you at mellowtalk. you will be fine. stay strong
⚓︎you need to talk to someone. someone who will be there for you and help you through this, because there will always, always be a through. bad things don't last forever, and i mean this. please, stay strong.
⚓︎im sorry about your situation... i think you should talk to your boss. it's really important that you be happy, and it seems that your financial situation is one of the key reasons that caused you to feel this way. you can do it, don't give up! we care about you at mellowtalk, feel free to vent
⚓︎tell the person who is closest to you. they can help. i have a friend who just came out a year ago, she told her best friend. when she told us we were shocked at first, there were some people who took a bit longer to accept it but in the end it was all ok. it's not that bad, don't be too scared. im sure you will gain acceptance. :)
⚓︎its alright to feel this way. something is definitely wrong with your relationship and i think u should talk to your fiancé. sit her down and have a serious talk with her. or if she brushes you aside then write it out in a little romantic note and tell her how you feel.. if she really loves you then she shouldn't ignore you if you tell her you are confused and don't understand. work things out with her. good luck! and... happy mellowtalk birthday :)
⚓︎you should try to stop playing so much, maybe limit yourself to 5 hours a day, then 3, then 1. it wont be easy but it'll be worth it, i promise. it's not good to get stuck indoors all day... you can do it!
⚓︎maybe you should give him some time. maybe like the first time he was actually busy then the second time the third time he got annoyed that you kept on contacting him. just give him a while then try again.